10 Types of Men that Empower Working Women
Everyone knows how to recognize a chauvinist or the guy who seems really helpful just because he wants to sleep with women. But why focus on the negative?
We’ve identified at least 10 types of men who help professional women and what motivates them to do it.
Who are these men? The list of men follows the acronym EMPOWERING because that’s what they are to women.
If you are one of these guys, we applaud you! If you aren’t, consider the many benefits of changing your ways.
How to spot him: A man who realizes that women hold the purse strings and he wants to sell appropriately to get their money before someone else does. With women now making the majority of online purchases, vacation, home furnishings, retail sales, consumer electronics, vehicles and even lawn mowers knowing women is smart business.
Why he’ll help: He promotes women to ensure his edge. The benefit to him is profits and margins. Sometimes women are his competitive edge.
Cautions: His biggest concern is the bottom line. When women don’t help his financial interests he isn’t interested in them.
How to spot him: This may be a gay man, ethnic, religious, economic, foreigner or other guy who feels separated from the men in charge. He cares about gender issues because he understands what it is to be a minority and wants to support the cause.
Why he’ll help: The benefits to him for empowering women include more flexible options at work such as domestic partner rights, more sensitivity to diversity, increased awareness of the moral need for equality, and they value different perspectives.
Cautions: Despite similar interests these guys are still men and still have access to kinship benefits that women don’t.
How to spot him: This is a man who knows his limitations and understands that a woman will be better for the job. He strives for success of project and initiatives by delegating areas he’s unqualified to do himself with the best person.
Why he’ll help: The benefit to him is the work gets done well and he takes credit for finding the smart women talent.
Cautions: He will very often attempt to hire women at a reduced rate for overall project cost projections return on investment and total cost of ownership.
One Guy There-
How to spot him: He is easiest to find as the token male among women, a man who is alone when there are few or no other men in the industry.
Why he’ll help: The benefit for men to get involved in an all women’s organization is that he becomes a unique commodity among women, forcing them to broaden and diversify their approach which empowers everyone as a consequence.
Cautions: He is the first to file a reverse discrimination suit and name you as a perpetrator.
How to spot him: This is a man who just loves to work with women. I’m not referring to sexual enjoyment. Instead this guy sincerely enjoys women’s special traits, characteristics or leadership styles.
Why he’ll help: The benefit to him is that it’s pleasant for him to go to work everyday. He really prefers being with business women.
Cautions: With all of those women around, there are bound to be attractions, distractions and jealousies. You also have to make sure he appreciates women for more than just office decoration.
How to spot him: He’s man who has his own wife and daughter, but your second dad in the workplace.
Why he’ll help: The benefit to him in empowering women is to create a better environment for the women in his life by setting an example for the present behavior and future workplace. This guy wants the best for his own women, so he protects and mentors you.
Caution: He may do more for you than your own dad did, and if he retires, changes positions, or is sidelined himself because of age discrimination you’re on your own.
Raised by Feminist-
How to spot him: The child of a feminist is a man who is oversensitive to women’s causes. He censors his maleness to bring a more pleasant environment for women, and backs them because he was raised to think it was the right thing to do.
Why he’ll help: The benefits to him are a clear conscience and positive self esteem.
Cautions: He may be upset at his mom for not being more traditional and take it out on you.
How to spot him: This man is really into corporate or personal risk management. Usually the guy himself is bad with women, or the company he works at is bad to women in general. So they hire a woman or promote her to say “I’m not such a bad guy.” Or “How can I be harassing women when I’m the one who promoted her.” He may promote or give pay raises to whole groups of women to avoid litigation.
Why he’ll help: The benefit to him is protection for the company or himself by staying out of lawsuits or other accusations that could derail his career.
Cautions: When he points to you to defend him because you were the only one he actually ever helped, you may feel a tremendous conflict of interest with the office sisterhood.
How to spot him: You see him raising his children on his own for many reasons, but increasingly because of divorce custody. This is tied to the larger trend of singling in America.
Why he’ll help: Promoting women allows him to be more comfortable as a dad. Advantages to him include getting the same family leave, flex schedule and childcare benefits as women.
Cautions: This guy may retaliate at all women eventually because of his ex.
How to spot him: This is a man who really applies himself to child raising and home making, thereby empowering women to become breadwinner or a co-earner along with him.
Why he’ll help: There are numerous benefits to him. His efforts allow him to know his children and allow the couple to each do what they are best at. The household is able to increase overall income and enjoy the economic prosperity.
Cautions: Working women often don’t respect moms-at-home unless they become one themselves. It follows that the guy who helps at home may get a lot of undeserved criticism from other men as well as women who don’t give him the allowances and respect for making the right choice.